The best article to explain why Trump defies all odds.

https://www.theblaze.com/columns/opinion/trump-acted-first-and-the-experts-are-furious-because-it-worked

This article has so many good quotes:

“He accepts risk. He will do things that may blow up in his face. Most public people spend their careers dodging blame and pinning it on rivals. Trump cares less about pleasing the people who write essays about “norm erosion.”

“That history matters. Men shaped by bureaucracies tend to treat legitimacy as a product of process. Men shaped by dealmaking tend to treat legitimacy as a product of outcomes. One group asks, “Was this properly staffed?” The other asks, “Did we get it done?” Washington fills up with the first type and recoils from the second.”

“That’s why Trump derangement syndrome now imposes a cost beyond mere foolishness. It has become a strategic liability. When a domestic class hates one man so much that it prefers his failure to the country’s safety, it stops functioning as a normal political opposition. It becomes a hindrance to national self-preservation.”

“That’s why he makes them crazy. He walks around as a rebuke to the managerial fantasy that calibrated people with soft hands and impeccable credentials can safely “manage” history. Trump reminds them — rudely, constantly, and in public — that moments arrive when nerve beats nuance and the man willing to absorb disorder defeats the man who can only describe it.”

The “I Don’t Feel a Connection” Dating Trope

People in this generation are after instant gratification. If they don’t feel an instant spark or connection, they will move on. It takes years of maturity and experience to realize that connections are built over time and effort. What matters early on is compatibility not chemistry. However, people chase chemistry since that gives the dopamine rush. It’s basically the high school crush feeling that causes the heart to race and then anxiety. That’s what they want.

The reason people do this is simple–it’s boring without chemistry even if you have perfect compatibility. You do need chemistry and that’s where humor and banter comes. However, you also need patience to develop that chemistry.

Next time they tell you that they don’t feel a connection… Do yourself a favor and thank them. Then date the people who actually are past that.